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Tuesday, April 23, 2019

Many Stories, One Lesson


Between Facebook and YouTube, I really can't tell which has got the better part of my attention. As an internet citizen, I have a compound on Facebook, while as an addict of knowledge, YouTube subscription reflects heavily on my budget. I have lots of favorite clips on YouTube ranging from documentaries, interviews, Ted talks, stand-up comedy, sermons and tutorials.
Sometime last year I stumbled on a clip on YouTube where Daddy Freeze interviewed Timaya in his mansion. It lasted for about two hours, and I stayed up all night to savor every bit of it. Weird, right? Not at all.
Timaya told a story about hi short trip from Abuja to Lagos. Upon his arrival at the airport, he met unusual heavy security presence. After his inquiry, he was told that the security operatives were the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC). They had come to arrest former governor; Fayose of Ekiti state. While he sorted himself out, Fayose arrived at the airport and was immediately whisked away by the security men.

The arrival lounge was quiet. No one hailed or praised the former governor as usual. People only stood, watched and pointed. As Fayose and him made eye contact and slightly waved at each other, Timaya said he realized that this is the same man that his arrival on a place like this some months ago would have attracted crowd jostling to see him or welcome him because he was in power. Since he was no longer in power, people whom he thought really loved him have deserted him. As far as they are concerned, he was no longer relevant. The praise singers could no longer find their voices!

 Timaya told another similar story:

He had gone to visit his sister who had just been delivered of a child in one of the hospitals around Mafoloku, Lagos state. As soon as he set foot at the hospital, words quickly spread that he is in town. Not long after, the hospital was nearly shut down by the crowd that rushed in to see him. He was flattered by the overwhelming reception that he received at the hospital. After he managed to leave the hospital and find his way home, he got a call from his mother who was still at the hospital with her daughter.
"Timaya,” she began, “This people wey gather there, you think say them like you?"  She asked her son.
"But mama na my fans na."
"Same people wey dey hail you, na them go laugh you. Don't put it in your mind.
Work very hard. Just dey go your own because the day wey them no go see you again, they won't talk to you. Them forget about you. Them no go hail you."


Some days ago, global media went agog with the news of what has been termed the greatest comeback in sports history. Tiger Woods had won The Masters (his 15th major title) after missing in action for 11 years. Same Tiger Woods that 11 years ago had been dragged around by the media on his cases of infidelity in marriage which led to divorce, and consequently a slash on his net worth and performance in sports.
Different people had used Woods as a case study for their "From grace to grass" homily. If you wanted a good contemporary example of how "charisma will take you up, but character will bring you down", Woods was the flagship.  He paid dearly for his mistakes. Not many thought that he would bounce back.
11 YEARS LATER…Woods' story has changed. People are singing his praises. We're beginning to find motivation in his situation. I don't mean to say everyone celebrating Tiger Woods now is a hypocrite. I only mean to say life is tough. Never swell on the compliment or condemnation of people. Like the adage, success has many friends but failure is an orphan. So wisdom demands you don't attach too much to criticism or celebration. Always give your best. The constant in this life are you, God and your decision. Everyone else is a dependent or independent variable.
Set your priorities right and duly put things in the right perspective. When people praise you, appreciate them, but don't be a fool to think they've got your back forever. Also when they jeer at you, don't take it personal. Such is life. Learn from your fall and bounce back again as quickly as possible. Some people only have permanent interests. It is not dependent on you or what you are to them. Once they no longer get what they expect to receive from you, they move on.
No mentally balanced athlete will stop at the middle of a race to yell back at critiques, or return pleasant greetings of his fans, family and friends. Focus on your game and goal. Keep your eyes on the prize and don't lose sight of the finish line.
People will always be people. Don’t try to impress everyone.
…fathers will use you as an example to teach their sons.
…mothers will mention you in late night gist with their daughters.
…mentors will use you as a case study for their protégés.
…consultants will sketch your history on the board for their clients.
…pastors will feature you in their Sunday school manual.
…public speakers will host events and presentations by your inspiration.
…bloggers will be grateful for your traffic.
Do what is right. Not what you like.


Culled from Facebook
Edited by Omoruyi Uwuigiaren